Being valued vs tolerated

Ladies I know how hard we love when we love and I know what we are capable of when we truly love a man. We are nurturing human beings and it’s natural to want to give your all to the one whom you think love you. The problem with that is who we are giving all of that love too. Ladies as women we have to start thinking and focusing on figuring out does this man really value me or is he just tolerating me because I have something to offer him or something that he may even want under different circumstances. As sad as it is to say ladies, when you have a good heart it doesn’t mean this man is going to automatically value you. You are a queen you have to understand there are some who take advantage of the ones with good hearts only because some see it as a sign of weakness! Ladies I know and you know that because you have a good heart it doesn’t make you weak but in the eyes of an opportunist that’s all they see is weakness! All that I’m saying is know who you are, be confident in knowing you are worth so much more! If this man has shown you with his actions that clearly he is tolerating you my recommendation is to listen! Ladies think about your situations think about them clearly don’t be a victim of an opportunist, show that man he has to value you by stop accepting only being tolerated!

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The presentation!

Ladies we are what we present to these men. A lot of women lose sight of the fact that when a man first meet a woman he decides in his mind what it is that he will do with this woman. Men are going to treat you the way you present yourself to him. Although as women we like to think that men are completely brainless (which is not true by any means) but the truth is that man is paying attention to how you carry yourself. I do want to say as a disclaimer that it doesn’t mean that if you present well that he is going to be perfect! In this case I’m referring to how you carry yourself he definitely will peep out the vibe and what your about quickly. If you’re expecting this man to respect you then right off gate you have to present yourself in a manner in which he knows that and can take you serious enough to know what he can and can’t do to you. If you’re presenting yourself as that “hey nice to meet you, you so fine let’s get a room” or anything remotely close to that then don’t expect more from him. It’s never anything wrong with how each individual woman choose to present herself but I have to bring it to your attention as a woman to let you know don’t expect more than your showing him you are worth sis!

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