Many may ask is the relationship that I am in really worth the things that I am going through? A lot of the times we tend to stay in relationships that are unhealthy solely based on the fact that we think that we can change the person that we are with. It’s proven time and time again that no relationship is perfect but that does not mean that you have to deal with the actions of person that seems to not care because that’s not healthy. I always tell people when they are looking for advice that the moment you start to question a person’s actions and the way they are treating you then something is not right.
When you are in a healthy relationship with someone you will know it and you will feel it. Although all relationships have its share of arguments there is no way that two people are arguing every day or even every other day in a healthy relationship. When the person that you are with is seeing someone else and you constantly have to forgive them, or they are making you feel beneath them, that’s not a healthy relationship. When two people come together its so inspire, motivate, love, and to build a foundation capable of lasting a lifetime.
If you care for your partner and want them in your life, you have to prove it with your actions. The bickering and arguments that you are having does more damage than good. It destroys the bond which is the foundation of the relationship. There is no woman or man in this world that does not want to be in a healthy relationship in which two people can sit down, talk, have fun together, play together and build together. Healthy relationships are built and maintained and it will take work but if two people have the same goal in mind then you both deserve the happiness and fulfillment that a healthy relationship can bring. For in depth understanding consider reading this.