Have you ever noticed how men will go literally crazy if he even suspects his woman is seeing someone else or have feelings for someone else? This man will shut all the way down on you and act like you committed murder or something! I know that as women we really go crazy too but its something different when a man does it. It seems like it take his whole soul out of him. A man can cheat on his woman time after time after time and he says oh it was a mistake or just something that happened then proceed to continue on with his day like nothing happened.
Ladies I want you all to know that a quiet man is a man who is hurt and is holding his feelings in. As women we should all understand why though and if you don’t let me explain it to you. Most women who cheat is already cheating for a reason in the first place. They are cheating due to a lack of something they are not getting in the relationship. A woman never just cheats with just anyone. There has to be something that peaks her interest about the man who she is cheating with and for the time being he is providing something she isn’t receiving at home. I promise you there is an attraction and some type of emotional connection that is felt at that moment! I say that to say this when women cheat it’s a reason and the person she cheats with is not random!
Men are not as blind to feelings as we would like to think they are. Most men don’t give it too much thought when they cheat because they are built different from a woman! A man don’t have to have any emotional ties to a woman but because he WANTS to or is attracted to the woman he can be with her even if for one night and still not care about her. Therefore the odds are fair in saying some women can forgive a man who cheats because its assumed that he loves her but made a mistake although we all know better than that!
If you step out on your man I’m here to tell you that if that man loves you and you do that its going to break him down. That man knows that women cheat with a purpose so to say and his ego will be crushed! A man can handle a lot of things but this thing here will have him broken.
Cheating is wrong no matter who does it man or woman but the harsh reality of it is that it happens! I see it all the time and honestly I don’t see it ever stopping. What I do know is it’s totally up to you as to what you allow in YOUR life! I truly wish none of this was reality but we have to face it it’s the reality we live in! Consider reading this here.